Katie and Chase Fayle walking hand in hand through a field

Coaching with Katie & Chase Fayle

You Don’t Have to Find Your Way Through Betrayal Alone.

Maybe you just found out. Maybe you’re the one who broke the trust. Either way, you’re wondering what happens now.

We’re Katie and Chase. We’ve been married 20 years, we’re still best friends, and there was a time we didn’t know if our marriage would survive. Today we coach betrayed partners, partners who broke trust, and couples who want to heal together.

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Does this sound familiar?

If You’ve Asked Any of These Questions, You’re Not Alone.

We hear them from betrayed partners and from partners who broke the trust.
We asked many of them ourselves.

“Am I being too sensitive?” “I’ve already answered this.” “Why can’t I just move forward?” “Nothing I say is right.” “How do I know when I’m safe again?” “Why can’t we have one normal day?”

“Am I expecting too much?” “I don’t know what else they want from me.” “Is something wrong with me?” “I’ve apologized more times than I can count.” “Will I ever feel like myself again?” “How long is this going to take?”

Katie at her laptop smiling up at Chase in their kitchen

Katie & Chase · 20 years married, still best friends

Our story

We Know What It’s Like to Wonder if Your Marriage Will Survive.

We loved each other deeply. We were best friends. But when betrayal entered our relationship, everything we thought we knew about love, trust, and emotional safety was shaken.

We spent years trying to understand how to heal, often without the guidance or support we desperately needed.

How do you reach for safety in the arms of someone you no longer feel safe with?

Katie needed reassurance, honesty, and emotional safety. Chase struggled to understand how to sit with her pain without becoming defensive or overwhelmed by his own shame. We were both hurting, but we were experiencing that pain in completely different ways.

Today, after 20 years of marriage, we’re still best friends. But we’ve learned that rebuilding a relationship requires more than love, apologies, or simply waiting for time to pass. It requires understanding the pain, recognizing the patterns that keep couples disconnected, and learning how to create emotional safety together.

Our personal experience gave us an understanding of betrayal from both sides of the relationship. Our training and years of coaching individuals and couples have given us practical ways to help others through what we once faced ourselves.

“We needed a lighthouse in the middle of a storm.”

Someone who could explain why the pain felt so overwhelming, and offer direction when we couldn’t see the next step. That’s become the heart behind Resilient Relationship Coaching.

Katie & Chase

Meet your coaches

Two Sides of the Same Story

One of us knows what it’s like to be betrayed. One of us knows what it’s like to be the one who broke the trust. Together, we know what it takes to rebuild.

Betrayal isn’t a men’s issue or a women’s issue. Whichever side of it you’re on, we’ll walk with you as you find your way through.

Katie Fayle smiling on her couch with her laptop

Lived it as the betrayed partner

Kathryn “Katie” Fayle

MA, LPC, NCC, CSAT · Co-Founder

Katie knows what it’s like to love someone you no longer feel safe with, and to wonder if you’ll ever feel like yourself again. Her years of training and coaching in betrayal trauma and attachment help her explain what you’re going through when your own reactions don’t make sense.

“I could take responsibility for my healing without taking responsibility for the betrayal.”

Read Katie’s story →

Lived it as the partner who broke trust

Chase Fayle

Relationship Recovery Coach · Co-Founder

Chase knows what it’s like to face the consequences of betrayal, struggle with shame, and wonder whether the relationship you’ve damaged can ever feel safe again. He helps people move past shame and defensiveness toward honesty, accountability, and change their partner can actually see.

“I had to learn that my discomfort couldn’t become another burden she was responsible for carrying.”

Read Chase’s story →

Where are you right now?

Start Where You Are

You don’t have to know whether your relationship will survive to begin.
Find the sentence that sounds most like you.

“I’ve been betrayed.”

You need support for yourself, whether or not your partner is ready to do their part.

Start with: Betrayal Trauma: What Now?

Go deeper: Private coaching with Katie or Chase

“I’ve broken trust.”

You want to understand your choices, stop getting defensive, and become someone your partner can feel safe with again.

Start with: When Sorry Isn’t Enough

Go deeper: Private coaching with Chase or Katie

“We want to heal together.”

You’re both willing to do the work, and you want guidance from both sides of the story.

Best fit: Couples coaching with Katie & Chase

Ways to work with us

Choose the Support That Fits Where You Are

Some people need to begin on their own. Some couples are ready to work with us together. Every option below is coaching with Katie and Chase. You choose how close you want that support to be.

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Self-paced audio courses · instant access

For the betrayed partner

Betrayal Trauma: What Now?

You found out. Now you’re trying to figure out what happens next.

A short audio course to help you understand what’s happening to you after betrayal, and begin figuring out what you need next.

$29.95

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For the partner who broke trust

When Sorry Isn’t Enough

You caused the betrayal. The truth is out. Now you need to understand what real repair requires.

A practical, trauma-informed audio course for the partner who broke the trust and genuinely wants to help repair the damage.

$29.99

Learn More

Work with us directly

3-month coaching packages · begins with a free consult call

One-on-one · with Katie or Chase

Private Coaching

For the person who needs support for themselves right now. Work one-on-one with Katie or Chase, whichever side of betrayal you’re on.

$1,500

for the full 3-month package

Prefer to pay monthly? Payment plans through Klarna and Afterpay are available at checkout.

What’s included

6 private sessions, meeting twice a month for 3 months

Personalized implementation weeks between sessions, with homework and resources picked for where you are

Voxer and email access for questions that come up between sessions

Both courses included: Betrayal Trauma: What Now? and When Sorry Isn’t Enough

Book a Call With Katie Book a Call With Chase

Pick a time for a free 15-minute consult call.

Both of you · with Katie & Chase

Couples Coaching

For couples who are both willing to do the work. You and your partner meet with Katie and Chase together, with guidance from both sides of the story.

$2,500

for the full 3-month package

Prefer to pay monthly? Payment plans through Klarna and Afterpay are available at checkout.

What’s included

6 couples sessions with Katie and Chase, meeting twice a month for 3 months

Personalized implementation weeks between sessions, with homework, downloads, and practice to do together

Voxer and email access to both Katie and Chase for questions that come up between sessions

Both courses included for each of you

Add-on individual sessions with Katie or Chase at $150 per one-hour session, available only to couples coaching clients

Book a Couples Consultation

Pick a time for a free 15-minute consult call.

How private and couples coaching begin

No Pressure. Just a Conversation First.

Book a time

Choose Katie or Chase, or book as a couple, and pick a time that works for you.

Have a free consult call

A 15-minute call to hear your story and make sure coaching is the right fit. You don’t need to have the right words.

Begin your 3 months

If it feels right, we’ll send your enrollment link and schedule your first session.

If You’re Reading This in the Middle of Your Own Storm…

You don’t have to figure everything out today.

We remember wanting to heal but having no idea what healing was supposed to look like. Sometimes the first step is simply finding someone who understands the storm you’re standing in and can help you begin finding your way through it.

That’s why we’re here.

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With understanding and hope,
Kathryn Fayle, MA, LPC, NCC, CSAT
Chase Fayle

Questions

Things You Might Be Wondering

Do we have to know whether we’re staying together?

No. You don’t have to know whether you’re staying or leaving to begin healing. We can’t promise what your relationship will look like on the other side of betrayal, but we can help you understand what’s happening and decide what comes next.

What if my partner isn’t ready to do this work?

You can start on your own. Private coaching with Katie or Chase is open to you whether you were betrayed or you broke the trust. Your own healing deserves attention, whatever your partner decides.

What is Voxer?

Voxer is a free app for sending voice or text messages. When something comes up between sessions, you can send a quick question by Voxer or email instead of carrying it alone until your next meeting.

Can I book a single session?

Coaching is offered in 3-month packages, so single sessions aren’t available on their own. If you’re in couples coaching, either of you can add individual sessions with Katie or Chase at $150 per one-hour session.

Should I start with a course or with coaching?

The courses are a gentle place to begin if you want to understand what’s happening at your own pace. If you want personal guidance and accountability, private or couples coaching gives you that, and both courses are included.

What happens on the consult call?

It’s a free 15-minute conversation, by Zoom with Katie or by phone with Chase. You can come with questions, feeling confused, or unsure of what you need. We’ll talk about where you are and whether coaching is the right fit. There’s no pressure to sign up.

Resilient Relationship Coaching, LLC

Kathryn Fayle, MA, LPC, NCC, CSAT · Chase Fayle

Coaching disclaimer: Resilient Relationship Coaching, LLC provides coaching and education only. Coaching is not counseling, therapy, psychotherapy, or mental health treatment, and it is not a substitute for any of these. Our coaches do not diagnose or treat any mental health condition, and no clinical or counseling relationship is created by purchasing a course or coaching package. If you are in crisis or thinking about harming yourself, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline in the U.S.) or call 911.